baby wants to be held all the time
La Leche League USA Last update: by Help! My baby wants to be a soldier constantly! Recently, a newborn's mother came to the Facebook LLL USA community with a question: "My baby is three weeks old and does not let me down! Everyone told me all the babies eat and sleep, but I didn't realize she'd be in my arms all the time. Is this normal? I've had friends who tell me that I should let her cry and that she's training me. Is that true? "If you have fathered a newborn, you are probably associating your head in recognition of this mother's concerns. Keeping your newborn is one of the greatest joys for a new father, but the reality is that we need and want our arms time-free in time to do other things. How have parents experienced this challenge? We returned to our Facebook followers to find out what they had to say. (The original post can be seen in .)Skylar Mamie Lenox Ibarra: He's training you! To be an attentive and refined father who meets his needs with love and compassion. A great training, eh?Ericka J Iverson: This is normal, especially at first when they don't move much. It's called the fourth quarter because the baby behaves like they're still in the uterus. All they've known is your smell, touch and sounds of your body. Being separated from that is very disturbing. Some babies are more sensitive than others, and I've had four babies who needed to be with me all the time. Everyone grew happy and independent, and it made us rest. The baby's need for you is also a sign for you to rest your body. Kayt Rose: Take that baby and hold her as much as you want, Mom! It's just a little for so long. It will come a time when she will be too big for you to lie down and stay and remember the days when she was little. I know I do it with my elder. Besides, crying is her only way to let you know she needs something. You're all she really knows right now and she's still adapting to this big, brilliant, terrifying world. Angelica Ladd: If I train you for something, it is to love her unconditionally and live in the moment. This was the hardest part for me, too, but the baby needs your warmth, your heartbeat and breathing to feel safe and secure. You got it! Margarita Logan: At first, it seems that days last forever and tenure never ends. But honestly, it will happen – and quickly. So keep them while they're your whole world. Independence is a skill that comes with time, not outside the womb. Carissa Norris: Your baby has only three weeks. Enjoy the newness while you can. Enlist some friends to come to the cuddles so you can rest. Find a good baby carrier. Practice transferring baby to crib or safe place after they are asleep. I know you need a break. I also know, one day, maybe the way you'll want these days. Please call your friends and family to help them. The idea that new mothers should be able to do everything is crazy. Bethany Beckett: It's called the fourth quarter. Think about it like that. The baby went from being literally attached to you for nine months. Suddenly, the baby is in this strong, cold and crazy place. You're the constant. You're the safe place. The baby's not training you. The baby doesn't understand how to do it yet. The baby just wants to feel safe and warm to you. The baby is a lifeguard. Gwenn Wright: The five of my babies needed to be held, some for longer than others. Baby research. Use the bathroom before setting up and make sure you have some water, a snack, remote control, and your phone is available! My oldest is 19. I held him all day while he needed and he went to college 13 hours away... So no, they won't always need you if all you do is hold them. The precious days are few. Shereen Cantu: So, so normal! Your baby hasn't been literally far from you or been in such a big, open, cold space. They've never felt hunger or gas pains, so you're their greatest comfort. Granted, that doesn't mean it's easier, but you know that your baby (especially a three-week child) is not "training" or "handling" you. They communicate crying and even newborns need more than eating, sleeping and being changed. You can't ruin your baby with love, so you strip your little one because you blink and they're almost two and you don't know where time went. Megan Griffith: It's totally normal. Having said this, if you need to lower it because you're losing it, please put it in (a safe place), if necessary. Call someone. Breathe. Although it's completely normal, it's overwhelming. Chanell Ponce: Babywearing saved me during the first few weeks. I couldn't do anything before I started doing that. They just want to be kept close. Dominique Saito: I have a seven-month-old boy who still cries if I put her in her high chair, in a play n and especially if she sees me leaving the room. Once he's in my arms, he stops crying and has a smile. It's hard, but I'm telling myself it'll happen too. When a friend or family member comes, I give it to a break. Please send your history ideas to Amy in .Support of breastfeeding families–Today, Tomorrow, Always Please consider La Leche League USA. Donations of any amount are accepted gratefully. Thank you! Category: Signs Up to receiving new beginning blog from LLL USAThanks for your interest in new beginnings. Please complete the information below and click Register. E-mail First Name Last Name When you submit this form, you are granting: La Leche League USA, 306 Glenn Avenue Lawrenceville, New Jersey 08648, United States, http://lllusa.org permission to email you. You can unsubscribe through the link found at the bottom of each email. (See our details.) The emails are served by Constant Contact.©2021 LLLUSA.org • La Leche League USA. All rights reserved. • La Leche League USA, 306 Glenn Avenue Lawrenceville, New Jersey 08648, United States
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